You don’t need to ever insult another person to lift yourself up. You don’t need to decide your body is superior to anyone else just because you choose to constantly use others as comparison. You don’t need to be threatened because someone who weighs more or less than you is happy and confident. Don’t let someone else’s sexuality threaten you. Don’t let someone’s lack of attraction to you diminish the person that you are. If you have nothing nice to say don’t say it. If you only know how to give backhanded compliments and often think someone is ‘too this or too that’- Stop it. Insecurity is as natural as it unsavory. Don’t feed into it and don’t try and drag others down with you just make yourself feel better.